Memorial Garden & the Stephanie Miller Garden

The FUMC Memorial Garden and the Stephanie Miller Garden are places to remember, mourn, and experience the love that connects us to those who have died.  It is also a place to be reminded that nothing can separate us from God’s love. This peaceful place offers many places to sit and reflect and remember.  Members of the surrounding community are welcome to take time in the beautiful space by entering the garden on Ferris Place.

Scripture & Prayer

At FUMC Westfield, we seek to love God and love everyone. We commit to follow Jesus in word and action. We care for our community and congregation by sowing seeds of grace, love, and joy.

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Psalm 23:4 

Loving God, comfort me. Help me be a source of comfort for others. Amen.


Love In Action

  • Reach out to someone who is grieving.  Send a note or a text letting the person know you are thinking about them.  Invite them to go for a walk or to have a cup of tea.  

  • Offer to do a task or chore for someone who is experiencing a loss.

  • Talk to the person who died.  They have died but love continues to connect us no matter what.

  • Talk to God about your feelings and struggles.  

  • Knit or crochet a prayer shawl to give to someone after a loss.

Resources

Here are some books about grief that might be helpful.
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Imagine is the closest grief support center for families who have experienced the death of a parent or child.
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The Bill of Rights helps the bereaved claim their right to express their grief.
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We have grief when we go through any type of loss, not just a death.  Go to this link to learn more.
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Learn more about how to support someone after a loss.
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Experience the Gardens

You’re welcome to walk, rest, and fully experience the gardens of FUMC during daylight weekday hours and daylight weekend hours. We hope the gardens bring you peace and you experience the presence of God’s unconditional love and embrace.